Archive for July 19th, 2010

There is a saying I heard years ago that goes something like this:

A PERSON’S TRUE CHARACTER IS REVEALED BY WHAT HE DOES WHEN NO ONE IS WATCHING!

Nobody’s words and actions can be congruent all the time because none of us is perfect.  However, we need to always be aware of our words and actions, especially around our children.  They are more perceptive than we give them credit for.

I don’t think children expect their parents not to make mistakes.  They aren’t perfect children so they do not expect their parents to be perfect either.  The important thing is that when you do err as a parent, own up to it.  This, in turn, sets a good example for your children. 

Never be afraid to tell your child you are wrong.  Never invalidate their feelings, and make them feel they can talk to you honestly and frankly, even if it is something negative.

Remember, how you come across to your children subconsciously translates into how they perceive God.  Is God good, kind, and loving, or mean and abusive?  Can you pray honestly and frankly  to God, or do you have to “walk on eggs” in your prayers? Does God have boundary lines for obedience?  Does He have an instruction book?

God has set a good example to parents on how to raise their children.  All we need to do is follow in the footsteps of Jesus.